Unfortunately, many things in life don't go like we want them to. It seems like we always get to remember these bad moments and they tend to shape our life, our future and our personalities more than fortunate events do. We forget the things that we have learnt for school and instead we remember the lyrics to a song that we don't like. We forget all the beautiful moments we have spent with a person but we remember the tiny fight we had with them shortly ago. Psichologists are still trying to explain the reasons why our brains are seemingly working against us so often. It looks like the unconcious mind is playing the big role in this effect. The unconcious mind is the part of our thinking mind that we are only aware of during dreams. It is very rebellious and it only seeks entertainment and immediate relief from tension. This is why it makes us only do the things that are the easiest, careless about the consequences. Quick tempered people tend to have less control of it.
